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Kassidy and Sophie - Information
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Q: What is the difference between a Best Friend and a BFF (Best Friend Forever)?
A: A best friend is someone who is always there for you, you hang out with them a lot, and/or they help you whether academically or socially. But A BEST FRIEND FOREVER is someone who...well, read some of the characteristics on the home page. They are ALWAYS there for you whether you're in a fight/upset/mad at/with them or if you are at the best stage of your friendship. No matter what, you're CONSTANTLY together (INSEPERABLE!), hanging out all the time, and it's very rare for someone to see you guys separated/apart (there are exceptions for example Kassidy and Sophie live in different places, so of course they aren't seen together often). These are only the beginning of all the things that a best friend forever does. Be true to your BFF! Love you all!
Q: Is it okay to get into fights with your BFF once in a while?
A: Of course. BUT! There is a big difference between once in a while and all the time. Now, to be exact, getting in a fight like once a month is healthy. As long as it is not a big one. Little arguments over stupid things that you get over in less than a day doesn't count. Because everyone, no matter how good of friends you are, has those. I'm talking about things that last about a week or less. Small fights are good because that means that you are not being shy and that you are both expressing your own opinions to each other. And with each fight, big or small, comes something good. Whether it's becoming closer, learning more about each other, or just resolving some issues, it's good to let it out. But if you ever do have a big fight where you are saying hurtful things and it lasts a long time, that can sometimes be good, but also not so good. It can be good because of the things I just said above, but that's as long as it's one of the only times you guys have a huge fight. Now, if these big fight happen often (say....once every four months or more), that's not good. Then you are probably being rude and saying too much. The thing is: you know how you're supposed to tell your bff EVERYTHING, no matter what it is? Well that's not necessarily true. Yes, you should tell secrets and troubles, and happy times. But if it's something ABOUT your BFF or their other friends or family or anything that could offend them, then you shouldn't tell them about that; it can't be too hard to keep one or two things to yourself. There will almost always be something, of course, that you don't really like (yes, even about your BFF!), but it's probably nothing big and you just have to deal with it. You need to let each other know what's going on, as long as no one will get hurt (inside or out). You should love your BFF no matter what, and thinking about what you've been throught together and your future together can help you stop a fight.  Peace!
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Peace!